Differences between men and women are perhaps one of the great ironies of love… As a classic example of what concerns the relationship in marriage and long term is often men expect women are in love will never change, men want their women exactly like being there! Women, on the contrary tend to suggest that her husband would change that may be a better person, and for the sake of love.

For example, for men, before thinking about a serious relationship or are thinking about marriage, men, and see in this day and age, which means that the rate and man creates in his mind or does not meet your criteria? If she has what she wants? Could imagine with it for a long period of time? Or in the case of marriage, he could have imagined loving and with it a life long stay?

So if a man finally decided to be with a woman in a committed relationship or marriage, it simply means that he really loves and appreciates everything about it. More specifically, I really hope there will always remain as it is in the coming years. This is especially true when it comes to marriage is, for most men, if he decides to marry a woman, it means that he thought it was just perfect for him in every way. Very different and unlike men, women, and seek to shape the expectations of people tend to, to be in the future, if a woman chooses to be with a man, it’s almost as if he invested his future in it. Why? Because women are more sensitive to age, and also assume a greater chance than men enter marriage. How hard and cruel as it sounds, if you ask ten men, when given choices, they had a woman as his age or older to get married? Assuming that they were all to be honest, the answer is not likely to marry if they wish, a younger woman. I can not explain why, but that’s how most men like to think.

When a woman marries a man because she believes in him, that is, they believe that their potential, the potential for change, its potential, a good husband, her potential to be, in order to improve rights. It is based on its potential to change for the better bet. Better than anything that can be an ideal man in his perception. The conflict in men and women from different angles is exactly how and when conflicts begin to gather in a marriage. From his perspective, he says, “I gave this man my youth, my love and all, I spent all my years and my lovely bright future in it, then why not just change for me and for the better, so that can be used to to change the benefit of our love, why not say it more time to contact me and talk about their feelings and why you can not spend more time with me on the weekend? Instead, he and his meeting place for friends… ” From the perspective of men, he could say” I love the way it is, as ever it was. I would not trade it because I want all of here, I love to be themselves and be happy be, why do not want someone else I will not change? I was like, change it before marriage, and I did not want, why not be myself and as I am, why I can not go play ball, sport fishing to play poker, or playing video games, I like it used to with my friends on weekends, as it always did this for years, why all has to change after marriage? ”

I am a man, I can not speak for all men, but I think in this particular issue, for most men, when a woman tried and tried to change, put pressure on him to give way to another person, is not one of their biggest nightmares and pain would believe me, I’ve been there.

Frank and sincere my advice to women who are considering marriage, always ask yourself the following questions: 1) if (name) is the way it is now and not change a soon after marriage, I still love him?

2) How I can spend a lifetime with this man in the same way?

3) If (giving his name) was asked to change something, you can be one of your bad habits, such as throwing his dirty socks around the house, or your routine weekly poker nights with not friends, I’m willing to give up without remorse and feelings of despair?

If you love and loves you, and you answered yes to all questions, you are very lucky! Marry him, he is the only one!

Men, in all honesty, I know exactly what happens when a woman tries to change, feel, and if not, gently remind you that you are a man, are a true and should act as a good husband…. But if you look and think you look through the view of women, the truth is that women do not expect a man she truly loves, if you do not like, then you can worry about….

Or not, the service of love is a commitment is controversial, but for marriage, any person who is currently in a marriage, or any other person, he would say that making marriage of work, it is mutual understanding and willingness to compromise with each other needs, demands and expectations.

Men, my best advice is to do everything we can to meet your expectations is that they bet once you see that really your best to compromise and be the best you can be a man because love her, she will feel loved! In women feel in love and be loved is the most important for a happy marriage. That’s all for the love of love.